While still sort of on the subject of painful memories...

My husband raped me once. I didn't want to have sex with him without a condom 'cause I wasn't on birth control yet, I said no, and he did it anyway. I had to get emergency birth control the next day. And since leaving him I've been raped twice. Never reported my husband because, well, I was married to him so even though I felt violated, I let it slide. The other two I never reported because I felt like they were my fault. *sigh*